Dhp 84-85 · The Wise Man (Pandita)
If, whether for his own sake, or for the sake of others, a man wishes neither for a son, nor for wealth, nor for lordship, and if he does not wish for his own success by unfair means, then he is good, wise, and virtuous. Few are there among men who arrive at the other shore (become Arhats); the other people here run up and down the shore.