Analects 13.26-28 · TSZE-LU
The Master said, 'The superior man has a dignified ease without pride. The mean man has pride without a dignified ease.' The Master said, 'The firm, the enduring, the simple, and the modest are near to virtue.' Tsze-lu asked, saying, 'What qualities must a man possess to entitle him to be called a scholar?' The Master said, 'He must be thus,-- earnest, urgent, and bland:-- among his friends, earnest and urgent; among his brethren, bland.'